This article definitely didn’t go the way that I was expecting. I’m a man who likes boobs (I guess I fell victim to the socialization).
I try my best not to look or stare. But it’s almost like not being hungry and walking into a restaurant where the food smells so good that you instantly want to eat.
Or maybe, to us men who appreciate breasts, it’s similar to people slowing down to look at a car accident. We get a desire to look.
Not trying to justify it. Only want to share the other side. Also, I’ve wondered if it’s creepy if the guy is unattractive but less creepy if he’s handsome? I think that would be a good study.
Thank you for sharing the scientific side. My recommendation is that women start exposing their breasts as in other cultures or recognize that some men are victims to their desires. Also, recognize that when the breasts are shown off in a more enticing manner, they are going to draw more attention.
Im not trying to condone this behavior. I don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable. I do my best not to stare. But I think we all need to admit that men are wired differently from women.
Maybe then, men can stop being shamed for being male. Thank you for the article, even if the title tricked me. You wrote a nice argument.